Feeling Like a New Driver

After almost nine years of driving, I feel like a brand new driver again, thanks to this fifteen year old Vauxhall Zafira:


I passed my driving test a couple of weeks before my 21st birthday. My first car was an old ‘M’ reg Rover 214, which my mum and dad bought me. I moaned about it all the time, but it was a brilliant car, and it lasted me almost four years. During that time I loved driving – any excuse to go out in the car. After an initial few weeks of being a brand new nervous driver, I gained my confidence, even driving to Isle of Wight. I didn’t do much motorway driving, but felt absolutely fine the few times that I did.


Not long after I started my first full time teaching job we were involved in a ‘crash for cash’ incident. We were coming home from a friends in the early hours of the morning. It was dark and wet but Graham, who was driving, was a safe distance from the car in front. Suddenly, we smashed into the back of it. No warning or brake lights – it just suddenly stopped in the middle of the road. My poor Rover was a write off. To cut a very long story short, it turns out the car we smashed into was uninsured, and was trying to sue us for whiplash. After an investigation, they found out that the brake lights had purposely been disconnected so that we wouldn’t see that they had stopped. We just happened to be in the wrong place at the wrong time.

Because I was earning, I decided to purchase a car on finance – a little Corsa. I was so excited about it but the day we picked it up I knew I had made a huge mistake. I hated driving it. I began to let Graham drive it more and more, and only drove it if I had no choice. I drove it on the motorway once and was absolutely terrified of it. I don’t know whether it was the accident or the car, but suddenly I lost all my driving confidence.


Last year, we began to struggle with the cost of the payments on the car, and we realised that with baby number three on the way, it was going to be far too small. We decided to end the agreement with the finance company and save up to buy another car, one that was much more practical.

Saving up to buy one took us more than sixteen months, and at the beginning of June we bought ‘Zaffy’. It’s fifteen years old, currently has no working stereo and has a few little marks to show it’s age, but I absolutely LOVE it! The first time I drove it, I felt like a brand new driver, full of confidence, with just a tiny bit of nervousness. It feels big and safe, and is perfect for our family. Graham has taken a bit of a back seat (literally!) to help me to continue building my confidence. I’ve driven several times on the motorway, and even feel like I could drive on it by myself now.

I know I am a good driver, and other than an incident when I *may* have bumped into a lamp post when parking by our house, I’ve not had any bumps or points. I’m careful, I pretty much stick to speed limits and brake in plenty of time. I don’t quite qualify as a ‘young driver’ anymore (boo!) but I would have loved the MORE TH>N SM>RT wheels insurance to have been around when I did – they would have came and fitted a black box to my car to get a picture of my driving style. If I had got a good score on it by sticking to speed limits and not braking excessively, I could get up to 10% of my premium back in the first year. When young drivers are portrayed so negatively in the press for their driving, this is a way to prove that they aren’t all so bad!

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7 thoughts on “Feeling Like a New Driver

  1. we had a similar experience where my partner had a bump at 5.30am but hes sure the car didn’t have his lights on because he checked for a while and the car came out of no where, but because my partner pulled out of the junction our insurance said he has to admit it, but the whole thing was dodgy, with the guy claiming to claim off our insurance for work etc, but without the proof we had to cough up £500 excess and admit liability, In hindsight we should have rung the police, the guy is on facebook and a big rugby supporter, and their was a match the night before so he had probably been drinking, and when the police drove past the incidence the guy got in his car and drove off rather sharply, my partner waited for 5 thinking the police would turn round and see what was the matter, they didn’t so he drove home shaken up, we had had our car 3 weeks luckily it was minor but his insurance next year??? well I dread to think xxx

    1. What a nightmare! Luckily because the driver we hit admitted in his compensation form that he was uninsured it was thrown out so other than a written off car it wasn’t too bad for us, but what a nightmare for you. Can’t believe there are people out there who do that!

  2. My dad has a Vauxhall Zafira and 3 of my friends have one each and they are fantastic family cars…..If I drove it would be my choice too 🙂 x

  3. Wow that crash for cash sounds awful. Some people really are horrid.
    Do you know I am the opposite I prefer driving smaller cars but when my son was born traded cars with my husband as I struggled to get our massive pram in the boot of my polo so I now drive a CRV. I love it now but it took a while for me to adjust.

  4. Crashes, even the ones in which we are not at fault are scary and can shake you up. I’m glad you like you new/old car. I personally think as long as you like driving the vehicle and are comfortable behind the wheel, that’s all that matters. #BigFatLinky

  5. So scary when you hear about these “set up” crashes, makes you want to keep a very long distance from any other vehicles on the roads now.
    We had to upgrade to a bigger car when we had our twins making the family a total of six. To be honest the first time I went out in our people carrier I didn’t like it but after a few days I grew to love it. We bought our first one in ’99 and still have it, it’s on borrowed time but is so lovely and comfortable to drive. Then when our second car needed replacing we bought another people carrier, same one just a newer model but it is nowhere near as comfortable as the old one. Will be a sad day when we have to say goodbye to it. We went looking at new cars last year and sat in a Corsa but the whole driving position is so different plus I like being able to see over other cars at the junctions. Our kids are growing up now so really we don’t need the 7 seats but now we have two grandchildren so I can maybe hang on to my need for a larger car for a few more years yet.

  6. Completely agree that not all young drivers should be tarred with the same brush. I’d say very confidently that I have always been a bloody brilliant and very careful driver, no matter what my age. Thanks for sharing this on #bigfatlinky

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